Why is AI memory still so hard for normal people?
A user managing lots of customer information and parallel projects asks why AI memory feels so hard for ordinary people despite being talked about as a basic feature. The core problem is that memory gets worse with use: every old note stays equally true until someone cleans it up. What works is giving memories an expiry date, letting the newest instruction win, and keeping a short list of the rules that actually matter at the top of every session.